Seems like this is the year where everyone is doing these In and Out lists… once reserved for magazines and blogs, people are now using it as a way of making resolutions without actually saying that word, maybe tricking themselves into keeping with it for longer than one month. I have resolutions too, but it’s not so much “new year, new me,” but rather, becoming the me I want to be and, for whatever reason, don’t allow myself to be. I overanalyze everything. And unfortunately, that means I rarely act, because I’m too busy thinking through every possible scenario, outcome, and reaction. The reality in my head has become my…